Stop comparing yourself to others!!

Comparisons between people are a recipe for unhappiness. Comparing ourselves to others allows them to drive our behavior, you spend quite a lot of time thinking how someone is a lot better than you are, how someone is taller than you are, slimmer than you are, fairer than you are, etc. etc.

One of the major things you fail to notice is that you’re better than other people at being you. This is the only game you can really win. When you start with this mindset the world starts to look better again. You are no longer focused on where you stand in comparison to others. You focus on your energy, and how to improve yourself. Life becomes about being a better version of yourself. And when that happens, your effort and energy go toward upgrading your personal self every day, not worrying about what your coworkers are doing. You become happier, free from the shackles of false comparisons, and focused on the present moment.

Just remember you are perfect the way you are, stop caring about what people think of you, you never have to meet the expectations of others, compare yourself to others only when it is constructive.

When you stop comparing between people and focus internally, you start being better at what really matters: being you. It’s simple but not easy. You are the only person you should stay focused on, live the life that makes you happy, stay with people that make you a better person, push you towards being better and not make you feel inferior.